A couple of governesses I have met in literature live an emotionally sadistic childhood, a boring adolescent period, and a moderately interesting lovelife. Still, they remain fascinating in their own utterly drab way (to me, at least). They are fascinating in the sense that they are neither servant nor a part of the family and yet they hold the important key to ensure their charges are equipped with far more superior knowledge than those learning under a structured school system.
Despite their way of life, governesses are, in essence, teachers. And that makes them doubly fascinating to me, especially since I hold the teaching profession in great respect. Now that I am teaching professionally at least one semester in a year, my admiration for governesses---and my old teachers and friends-who-are-now-teachers---tripled. Governesses in the old times are lucky to be tutoring one to five brat-like charges. How about my friend, Candice, handling 50 talkative high school students in Talisay City or my friend, Montane, teaching 60 hyperactive kids in a mountain barangay in Toledo City five days a week? The largest---and latest---that I have managed is a college class of 30 young ladies for three times a week for six weeks, and I was already having back pains.
In the Philippines , we respect our teachers---at least, that’s the feedback I got from two full-time college teachers. We get easily scandalized when we hear news reports of teachers physically, emotionally, and/or sexually abusing their students, simply because we understand the nobility of the profession through which more or less 15 years of formal learning and development of our children are depending on. This perhaps explain how we expect so much from our teachers, as stated in the “Code of Ethics for Professional Teachers” that covers all teachers in public, private, and vocational schools, whether on full-time or part-time basis:
Teachers are duly licensed professionals who possesses dignity and reputation with high moral values as well as technical and professional competence in the practice of their noble profession, and they strictly adhere to, observe, and practice this set of ethical and moral principles, standards, and values.
And this set went on to cover obligations to the state, community, profession, learners, parents, business, and as a person.
In my case, being a new teacher, while I paddled my way through ethics and social responsibility, I stressed my mind out more worrying on whether or not I was doing the right thing and whether or not my students actually learned something from me. Teaching was synonymous to worrying edging towards mental craziness. And as Maryrose Wood said in her book, The Incorrigible Children of Ashton Place #1: The Mysterious Howling: “Clearly, being anxious is a full-time and rather exhausting occupation.”
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The cast of Paglaum |
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The production crew of Paglaum |
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The cast and crew and their teacher |
This summer, despite my high level of anxiety, I managed to learn and relearn a few things in my Developmental Theater class when it comes to college teaching:
1. Set the rules during the very first meeting. Check attendance promptly and regularly to show that your students’ attendance matters to you, apart from it being a rule in the schoolbook.
2. Let the students own their work. And this means letting them understand that it is okay to commit mistakes if it means doing better the next time.
3. Seek help. In my case, I do not claim to be an expert of a subject, especially stage performance, which is why I invite friends with theater experience more extensive than mine to speak before my class.
4. As much as possible, keep the students off their seats, which means facilitating several relevant physical activities while being consciously aware of the time. And, in the process, get to know your students. Believe me, contrary to my traditional beliefs, it's okay to know your students.
5. Do not be afraid to speak in Cebuano (or in your comfortable language understood by all) to get the message of your lesson out clearly.
6. There are always students who won’t approve of your teaching methods, unconventional or otherwise, but that does not mean you should treat them less. They are your students, and the golden principle always applies: You cannot please everyone, so don’t die trying.
7. Motivate them.Based on my summer experience, my students are at a certain young age where they want to do something so unforgettable in their lives--so unforgettable they were willing (unwittingly at that) to put the school and my job at risk, so I have to advise them to be "reasonably" creative. Fortunately, they did.
8. Don’t be afraid of poor evaluation from your students but remain humble when they bask you with positive feedback in exchange of the knowledge and skills training you’ve offered to them.
9. Most of the time, trust and follow your instinct. You’ll be amazed where it will take you.
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The play's theater program (page 1) |
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The play's theater program (page 2)...The Directors' Note is very touching. |
In his book, The Skillful Teacher, Stephen Brookfield likened teaching to a white-water rafting because of how it takes one to high levels of exhilaration and excitement and to low levels of boredom and reflection. “As we successfully negotiate rapids fraught with danger, we feel a sense of self-confident exhilaration. As we start downstream after capsizing, our self-confidence is shaken and we are awash in self-doubt. All teachers sooner or later capsize, and all teachers worth their salt regularly ask themselves whether or not they are doing the right thing,” Brookfield wrote.
Although I haven’t tried white-water rafting in Cagayan de Oro, I sympathize with the ups and downs of the teaching experience. The closest I can probably compare it to is that of a Ferris wheel ride I had in a carnival, one of the highlights of our barangay fiesta several years ago. So I agree again with
I was surprised at discovering how talented my students are but they themselves did not know it; I was shocked to learn that many of them doubted their capabilities; and it took a lot of risk on my part and their part to mount a play that explores teen issues, including premarital sex, and stage it on an auditorium in a private college owned by very conservative nuns. It took a lot of restraint, creative, cooperation, and understanding. Together, they successfully did their play; not bad for an amateur group with only barely three weeks of regular practice. The class aptly called their play, “Paglaum”, which means hope in Cebuano. Here is an excerpt of my opening remarks during the play production:
“As a teacher, it is an honor to meet courageous and diligent young ladies who braved an exploration of teen related issues that call for acknowledgement and resolution. This play is a creative and collective result of their individual perspectives. The keyword here is collective. The class has worked as a team since day one from conceptualization to script-writing to publicity and promotions to rehearsals. I would like to believe that somehow through this class, these 29 ladies learned the true essence of working together, learning together, and having fun together to achieve their goal of educating and entertaining the public. I call on you to listen and learn and, with the issues that will be presented through the play, have hope.”
My summer this year may not spell much of beaches and sun tan but I have had a great time with these young ladies. The class in itself was a huge emotional investment, but the emotional compensation was incredible and far outweighs the investment. Mind you, my experience was not all fun; there were moments of boredom and fatigue, but they pale in comparison to the time when the class cheered after I praised them for a big improvement after only a week of rehearsals, to the time when my heart swelled with pride when I learned that the production crew, on their own, took a stand and amicably settled an agreement with the nuns over the use of the auditorium, and to the time when they hugged me backstage right after their final play production, practically crying with joy over their success yet fully aware that some good things just have to end and that we have to move on.
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A bouquet of lovely flowers from my students |
Let me end this post with the wise words of Paulo Coelho who wrote in his book, The Witch of Portobello, “What is a teacher? I’ll tell you: it isn’t someone who teaches something, but someone who inspires the student to give of her best in order to discover what she already knows.”
Enjoy the rest of the summer, my dear readers.
- Nancy